The answer to this question is: "Ye receive not because ye ask amiss (James 4:3)." The right way of asking is from an attitude which embraces the goodness of life, and focuses on the wonderful possibilities surounding us. Putting that attitude to work in our lives is more than just mouthing positive words. Attitude is a combination of our thought, our belief, our feelings and our actions. For these to be congruent there must be a deep trust in the loving and supportive Atmosphere within which we have our whole existence.